The Love Seat Counseling and Life Coaching

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Affair Recovery & Infidelity Counseling in Fort Worth, North Richland Hills & Across Texas

Broken trust does not mean a broken ending.

Whether you discovered the affair last week or have been carrying the pain for months, you do not have to figure out what comes next alone. Our therapists specialize in affair and betrayal recovery, with in-person counseling in Fort Worth and North Richland Hills and online affair recovery therapy throughout Texas.

"We came into therapy as a last resort... We are now able to look to the future together."

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You are dealing with more than you expected.

An affair does not have to be physical to be devastating. Emotional affairs, secret online relationships, hidden pornography use, and financial deception can create a profound rupture in trust, even when there was no physical affair. Finding out changes everything. The person you trusted most feels like a stranger. You replay conversations looking for signs. Sleep is hard. Focus is harder. You are not losing your mind. You are processing a kind of relational trauma that affects every part of your life.

  • ✓ You cannot stop the intrusive thoughts or mental replays
  • ✓ You feel angry, heartbroken, and numb, sometimes all at once
  • ✓ You do not know if staying or leaving is the right call
  • ✓ You want to move forward but have no idea how
  • ✓ You are exhausted from pretending everything is fine

If any of this sounds familiar, you are in the right place. And reaching out for help right now takes real courage.

Affair recovery is not about taking sides.

Both partners are hurting, even when the hurt looks different. Our therapists create a safe space where both of you can be honest about what happened and what you need moving forward.

For the Hurt Partner

Your pain is valid. All of it.

Betrayal can feel like a physical wound. The shock, the anger, the questions that will not stop. Therapy gives you a space to process all of it at your own pace, without being rushed toward forgiveness before you are ready.

  • Processing the emotional impact of the betrayal
  • Managing triggers and intrusive thoughts with a plan
  • Rebuilding your sense of safety and self-trust
  • Getting honest answers in a structured, safe environment
  • Understanding what happened without carrying blame
For the Involved Partner

This is hard for you, too.

Guilt, shame, confusion about how things got to this point. Many people who have had affairs feel paralyzed, unsure how to repair the damage or even where to start. Therapy gives you a path forward that goes beyond apology.

  • Understanding what led to the affair without excusing it
  • Learning how to show up for your partner in a real way
  • Creating clear boundaries around outside relationships and transparent agreements that help restore safety
  • Rebuilding trust through consistent, transparent actions
  • Addressing the underlying patterns in the relationship

The truth, told in a way you can both survive.

Most couples try to have the hard conversation on their own, late at night, with no structure and no one to slow it down. It usually ends in a fight, a shutdown, or details that cannot be unheard. A facilitated disclosure process is different.

Your therapist guides the involved partner in giving full, honest answers to the questions that matter most, while protecting the hurt partner from the kind of detail that feeds obsessive replaying rather than healing. How that happens is tailored to your relationship and walked through together in session.

Affair recovery research and clinical models consistently emphasize honest disclosure as an important part of rebuilding trust. The hurt partner needs space to ask questions, and the involved partner's willingness to answer openly and consistently helps create the conditions for repair. Disclosure is hard. Done well, it is also the moment trust starts to come back.

What this means for you
  • You are not doing it alone. The hardest conversation of your relationship happens with a trained therapist in the room, not at the kitchen table at midnight.
  • Honesty without more harm. You get the truth you need, and you are protected from the kind of detail that only deepens the wound.
  • Both partners are prepared. Each of you knows what to expect before you walk in.
  • Room to ask again. Needing the same answers more than once is normal, and it is met with patience rather than frustration.
  • A path to verified trust. Clear agreements going forward, so trust can be rebuilt on actions you can see rather than promises alone.

Not sure which therapist is right for your situation? Answer a few questions and we will point you to the clinicians best suited to help.

The quiz takes about two minutes. The consultation is a brief, no-pressure call to see if we are the right fit.

How we help couples heal after infidelity.

Our therapists use Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), an evidence-based approach that helps couples understand the deeper emotional patterns beneath conflict and disconnection. Combined with trauma-informed methods, EFT helps couples process betrayal and build a new foundation of trust.

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Stabilize

We help you stop the emotional bleeding. This phase focuses on creating safety, reducing reactive conflict, and establishing a foundation where honest conversation is possible.

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Disclose

The hurt partner gets honest answers to the questions that will not stop. Your therapist structures this so it is complete without being retraumatizing, and so the questions can be asked again until they no longer need to be.

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Understand

We explore what happened and why, without blaming the relationship or the hurt partner for the decision to have an affair. Then we look at the individual and relationship patterns that will need to change for lasting repair.

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Rebuild

Trust returns in small increments: transparency, follow-through, managing triggers together, and taking emotional risks again. New patterns replace the old ones, and the relationship becomes more honest than it was before.

From first call to first session.

We have made the process simple because the hard part is already what you are going through.

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Ready to get started? Schedule your intake appointment online or directly with one of our affair recovery therapists through their booking links below. Your first session (60 minutes) is where we get to know your story, your goals, and what you need.

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First session $175 to $250 · Ongoing sessions $155 to $240 · See all rates

Couples intensives for deeper, more concentrated work.

For couples in crisis or at a crossroads, or those who want more concentrated time together, our couples intensives offer an extended, immersive therapy experience. Instead of meeting once a week, you do concentrated work over one to three days.

  • One to three days, with about 8 hours of therapy each day
  • Ideal for couples in acute crisis after an affair
  • Uninterrupted time to go deeper than a single weekly session allows
  • Flexible scheduling, including options for out-of-town couples
  • Can be combined with ongoing weekly therapy

Intensives are led by Risper Wangari, Carla James, and Crys Wood.

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Therapists who specialize in this work.

Not every couples therapist is trained to work with infidelity. Ours are. Each of these clinicians has specific experience in infidelity counseling, helping couples navigate betrayal trauma, rebuild trust, and find their way back to each other.

Elizabeth Wilson, LMFT, affair recovery therapist at The Love Seat Counseling

Elizabeth Wilson

Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist

Couples Therapy · Affair & Betrayal Recovery · Christian Counseling · Infertility & Relationship Stress · Bilingual English & Spanish

Helps couples heal after betrayal, reconnect through difficult seasons, and strengthen communication and emotional connection.

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Crys Wood, LMFT-Associate, affair recovery therapist at The Love Seat Counseling

Crys Wood

LMFT-Associate · Supervised by Emily Savage, LMFT-S

Couples Therapy · Affair Recovery · Attachment Injury · Sexual Intimacy · Trauma · EFT

Specializes in betrayal trauma, attachment injury repair, and helping couples rebuild physical and emotional closeness.

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Sam Goldenberg, LPC-Associate, affair recovery therapist at The Love Seat Counseling

Sam Goldenberg

LPC-Associate · Supervised by Ginny Manley, LPC-S
Virtual Affair Recovery Therapy Across Texas

Betrayal Recovery · Relationship Transitions · Substance Use · Postpartum · EFT & Gottman

Works with couples navigating betrayal, intimacy challenges, and communication breakdowns. EFT and Gottman trained.

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Devin Johnson, LPC-Associate, affair recovery therapist at The Love Seat Counseling

Devin Johnson

LPC-Associate · Supervised by Michael Ashenfelter, LPC-S

Couples Therapy · Relationship Repair & Trust Building · Attachment Wounds · Trauma · Men's Emotional Wellness

Specializes in relational distress, trauma & PTSD and people navigating grief, identity shifts, or hard life transitions.

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Not sure which of them is the right fit? Our matching quiz will tell you in about two minutes.

Trusted by clients, and by the professionals who refer them.

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"Restoring hope in our marriage. We came into therapy as a last resort. Thank you for providing us with the tools needed to improve our communication skills and to better understand each other. We are now able to look to the future together. My husband was skeptical about going to therapy. But after our sessions, he is definitely a believer."
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"Couples who are ready to do hard work for their relationship and want to see results are in the safest place working with Crys. She is clear in her process, kind but direct in her approach, and dedicated to offering the highest quality of care."
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"From the very beginning, he created a safe, supportive and nonjudgmental environment where I felt comfortable opening up. Devin was patient, understanding, and cared about helping me work through challenges and grow. I always left our sessions feeling heard, supported and more confident in my progress."
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"I confidently recommend working with Risper, and regularly refer couples to her practice. Her excellent skills as a therapist, partnered with her warm and understanding presence, set her apart. The feedback from clients I have sent her way is consistently wonderful."
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Tell us a little, and we will reach out.

Not ready to book online? Leave your details and our intake coordinator will call or text you within one business day. No forms to fill out about what happened, no pressure, just a brief conversation about how we can help.

  • Discreet. Your information stays private.
  • Help deciding between weekly sessions and an intensive
  • Matched with a therapist experienced in affair recovery
  • You can start alone if your partner is not ready

We will never share your information. Submitting this form does not create a client relationship.

Free Resource

The Love Seat Affair Recovery Guide

The guide our therapists give clients in the first weeks: what to expect in the first 90 days, coping with triggers, what to say and what to avoid saying, a trust-rebuilding checklist for both partners, and recommended reading.

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Answers before your first session.

Can a relationship actually recover from an affair?
Yes. Affair recovery is rarely quick, but it is possible. Research on Emotionally Focused Therapy shows that roughly 70 percent of distressed couples move out of distress during treatment, and many couples who recover from infidelity describe a more honest connection than they had before. Recovery takes commitment from both partners, skilled guidance, and time.
What if my partner will not come to therapy?
You can begin on your own. Individual therapy helps you process betrayal trauma, understand the emotional impact, and build clarity about what you need moving forward. Many reluctant partners choose to join couples therapy later once they see the process is safe and constructive.
Do we have to decide right now if we are staying together?
No. In the first 30 to 90 days after discovery, we encourage couples not to make permanent decisions about the relationship. The early work is about stabilizing, getting the full truth, and making an interim plan for daily life. Clarity about the future comes once the crisis has settled.
Will I ever get the full truth about what happened?
That is the purpose of guided disclosure. Your therapist helps the involved partner give complete, honest answers about what happened, when, and how it was hidden, while protecting you from graphic detail that tends to fuel obsessive replaying rather than healing. You can ask the same questions more than once. That is normal.
Does an emotional affair count?
Yes. Emotional affairs, secret online relationships, hidden pornography use, and financial deception can all break trust as deeply as a physical affair. If it was hidden and it hurt, it belongs in the room.
How long does affair recovery therapy take?
Most couples feel meaningful progress within the first 8 to 20 sessions: less reactivity, more honest conversation, and a clearer picture of where the relationship is headed. Fully rebuilding trust and emotional safety often takes longer, sometimes a year or two, with therapy tapering as the two of you need it less. After your first few sessions, your therapist will give you an honest assessment of what to expect.
Is what I share in session confidential?
Yes. Everything discussed in your sessions is confidential, protected by Texas law and professional ethics. Your therapist will explain the specific boundaries of confidentiality during your first session.
Do you accept insurance?
Insurance coverage for couples therapy varies by plan. The Love Seat is a private-pay practice, and we can provide superbills for clients who wish to seek possible out-of-network reimbursement. Visit our Rates page for current pricing.
What is the difference between weekly sessions and a couples intensive?
Weekly sessions allow for steady, ongoing work over time. A couples intensive is a one- to three-day experience, with about 8 hours of therapy each day, that offers more concentrated time together and deeper work. Some couples begin with an intensive and then continue with weekly sessions. Your therapist can help you decide which format fits best.

Two offices. One mission.

Affair recovery counseling in person at our Fort Worth Alliance and North Richland Hills offices, convenient to Keller, Southlake, Colleyville, and Haslet, with telehealth for couples anywhere in Texas.

Fort Worth Alliance Office

9800 Hillwood Parkway, Suite 140
Fort Worth, TX 76177
(972) 430-6765 · Call or Text

North Richland Hills Office

8376 Davis Blvd, Suite 144
North Richland Hills, TX 76182
(972) 430-6765 · Call or Text

Your relationship is worth fighting for.

The affair happened. What happens next is up to both of you. A free consultation is the first step. No pressure, no commitment, just an honest conversation about where things stand and how we can help. Prefer we reach out? Leave your details and we will.

First session $175 to $250 · Ongoing sessions $155 to $240

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